Scott & Sofia | Renaissance Golf Club Wedding | Haverhill, MA
Scott and Sofia celebrated their wedding with a church ceremony at St. Lucy's Parish followed by portraits and a joyful reception at Renaissance Golf Club in Haverhill, Massachusetts.
Beyond the Suit: Groom & Groomsmen Photo Ideas Before Formal Attire
Grooms and their parties don’t have to skip “getting ready” photos. From matching tees to meaningful details like accessories and toasts, here are creative ways to unify your crew before the suit goes on.
When brides plan their wedding mornings, “getting ready” photos in matching outfits or robes are almost expected. But for grooms and their parties, the hours before formalwear often go undocumented. If you’re a groom in New York, New Jersey, Connecticut, Massachusetts, or Maryland, you don’t have to skip this part of the story. These early moments are a chance to show camaraderie, personality, and the details that make your group unique.
(If you’re looking for ideas for the bridal side, I put together a full guide here: Creative Outfit Ideas for Bridal Party Photos)
Here are some ways to capture meaningful, stylish photos with your groomsmen before the tux or suit comes on:
4 Photo-Ready Outfit Ideas for Groomsmen Before the Suit
1. Matching Lounge Shirts or Tees
A crisp t-shirt or henley in the same color for the entire party looks relaxed but unified. Add a logo or inside joke printed discreetly, and it becomes a keepsake.
2. Casual Button-Downs
Similar to bridal party button-downs, groomsmen can rock short-sleeve button-downs, plaid shirts, or even linen tops if the wedding has a summer or beach vibe.
3. Team Jerseys
If the groom and his crew bond over sports, matching jerseys from a favorite team make for fun, personal, and bold group photos.
4. Matching Slippers or Socks
Simple but effective—slippers, fun socks, or even branded sneakers can tie everyone together without needing full outfits.
3 Ways to Add Meaningful Details
1. Accessories That Match
Think watches gifted by the groom, cufflinks with initials, or hats that reflect your style. Accessories help unify without feeling too “posed.”
2. Signature Drink Moments
Capture the group pouring whiskey, clinking beers, or mixing a signature cocktail together. It’s authentic, relaxed, and photo-friendly.
3. Shared Backdrop
Even if outfits don’t match, photos come alive when the setting ties everyone together—poolside, on a rooftop, or in a space that reflects the groom’s personality.
Final Thoughts
Your pre-suit photos don’t have to look just like the bride’s. Grooms and their parties can create their own style—casual, personal, and fun—without overthinking it. Whether it’s matching tees, shared accessories, or a quick toast, these moments give you photos that show personality, friendship, and excitement before the formality of the ceremony.
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